Can We Learn To Love?


Laverne Cox is a woman who is known for her personal, inspiring speech about her life experiences as a black trans woman. Although it is clear that Cox has faced many difficulties, she has decided to focus on one particularly shocking event that changed her perspective on life, and has made her the face of a movement.

One day, while Cox was walking down a street in New York City, two men, a black man and a Latino man, approached her. Initially, being attracted to her, they began to shout degrading things towards her like “Yo, mama, can I holla at you?” At first, Cox could ignore them; however, once the men realized that she was a trans woman, they became even more insulting, “They began to argue about whether I was the b word or the n word” Cox states. Feeling very uncomfortable at this point in the situation, Cox began to become anxious, as she felt she was unsafe, “Our lives are often in danger, simply for being who we are, when we are trans women.” Eventually she was able to cross the street and leave the very uncomfortable situation without harm.

Cox’s story reflects the lives of many trans black women in the world today, and the struggles that they go through in their everyday lives. Specifically, it revolves around the discrimination and prejudice towards women, black people, and trans people, and the intersectionality that unfortunately consumes those who are a part of all three categories, causing them to be more vulnerable to violent acts.

First, being a woman comes with its disadvantages in today’s society. We are seen as less capable than men, and although equality has been and is still being striven for, there still remain a handful of problems corresponding to the uniformity of men and women. In terms of violence, women are seen as weak and naive when compared to men, which alternatively makes them more vulnerable to violent acts. This is shown throughout popular culture in many ways, especially horror movies. Rarely is there a horror movie when the woman isn’t being attacked, harassed, or kidnapped. They are always seen as the victim, whether it is on a movie screen, or real life situations.

Next, there is the problem with discrimination towards black people. Being that there is a lot of racism found in today’s society, they don’t have the opportunity to live full and complete lives. Due to systemic racism, there is clear evidence that a lot of societies believe in white supremacy. This causes a huge problem, as white people then start to believe that black people are lesser than they are, and they begin to use violence as a lens as the only way of looking at them. This hand-in-hand creates a greater chance that black people could be put into dangerous situations, without having the ability to protect themselves, just because they are seen as a danger to society. As Javon Johnson states in his slam poem, “It’s not about whether the shooter is racist, it’s about how poor black [kids] are treated as problems well before we’re treated as people”.

Last, being transgender comes side-by-side with issues of protection and safety within the criminal justice system, leading towards them also being in situations of being abused and violated on the streets. According to Surya Monro and Lorna Warren, “Transgender is inadequately dealt with by the criminal justice system… Transsexual people lack full legislative protection, facing barriers regarding many aspects of citizenship, including parenthood and marriage… Transgender people of all groupings frequently experience violence and abuse.” (346) Due to this, it is clear that being transgender can lead to higher rates of abuse and violence, even though it is very unfortunate.

Cox’s story reveals and connects how all of these aforementioned categories intersect into creating a group of women that are at the top of the ladder for being victim to violent acts around the world. According to Cox, the violent acts pursued towards this group of women are a mixture of misogyny, intersecting with trans-phobia, intersecting with some racist stuff.

The sad reality is that this is in fact true. These women are attacked, beaten, abused and murdered frequently, yet nothing has been done about it. If people of higher authority won’t take the time to fix this issue, then we as members of the society need to make a change ourselves. Cornel West once said, “Justice is what love looks like in public.” If we begin to treat everybody in our communities as equals and with respect, then there would be less violence and hatred; there would be love.  Can we change for the better?



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Cox, Laverne. “Laverne Cox Explains the Intersection of Transphobia, Racism, and Misogyny (And What To Do About It).” Everyday Feminism 7 Dec. 2014. Print.

Love: Leave Out Violence. Digital image. 10 Mar. 2015. Web.

Monro, Surya, and Lorna Warren. “Transgendering Citizenship.” Sexualities 7.3(2004): 345-62. Web. 10 Mar. 2015.

4 thoughts on “Can We Learn To Love?

  1. lesg1249 says:

    Your blog was really well done and followed a great structure. I liked how you broke down the intersecting factors of Cox’s experience into separate discussions. Your example of women in horror movies I felt was really strong. Personally, I have never seen a horror movie where a female character is braver than a male character or is alive longer than a male character. I really dislike how this is how women are portrayed because it enforces the stereotype that women can never be as strong as men or be powerful. It’s really insulting. Your discussion of racism was also well done. It really made me think about how recently, there has been a lot of racial violence for example in Ferguson. It overall shows that we still have a long ways to go before white supremacy is abolished. Finally, your discussion of transgender violence was intriguing. I like how you acknowledged that a transgender’s difficulty to identify oneself leads to legal issues. It is an important factor that I think can easily be overlooked. All in all, I enjoyed your discussion on Cox and intersectionality!


  2. graceelisabeth says:

    Your blog post brought up a lot of interesting points, good job! In your discussion about the oppression that women experience, you brought up how misogynistic popular culture can be. I completely agree with this thought, especially when it comes to intersecting oppressions such as race and sexual orientation. Trans women of colour are almost never portrayed in the media, but on the rare occasion that they are, they are dehumanized and ridiculed. I think that the media is one of the most powerful resources and that it could be used to positively integrate trans women of colour (and other minority groups) into our society. But my question is then how do we reverse the negative connotation that is associated with these minority groups to allow them to be portrayed in a positive light within the media? My answer would be that it begins in communities like ours at Queen’s where we have the opportunity to engage with such capable individuals and ask critical questions about our society. What would your answer be?


  3. 12eg22 says:

    I really enjoyed reading your blog. I definitely agree that intersectionality is key to understanding the lived experience of Laverene Cox. I think the way that you investigated how women, transgender folks, and people of colour all experience violence was very useful. I could really see you using the tools we learned in class about recognizing patterns in this post. Your post brought up several questions for me…
    1) How do we transform from the current “lens of violence” that you write about, to a culture of love? Are there specific examples of this?
    2) How specifically do the different social identities of Cox intersect with one another? For example, the way that Cox talks about hegemonic masculinity and racism jointly resulting in cis-black men’s resistance to trans women of colour.
    Thank you for your providing such a clear and well-written analysis of this case study!


  4. foster.s says:

    I really liked reading your blog post! Your writing style is very formal and organized, which is important at the university level. One thing in particular that I enjoyed about your blog post was that you did a really good job of connecting Laverne Cox’s story to gender, race, and popular culture by using specific examples.
    I also thought that your 5 terms were very relevant to the situation at hand about transgendered people and the violence that unfortunately comes with judgements of them.
    You expressed your knowledge from the course and relevant topics in your blog very well.
    Great work!


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